ENCODED for LOVE

How the understanding of the way the brain is structured your partner

and the knowledge of attachment styles

will help you deal with relationship conflicts

and to build STABLE CONNECTION

"What the hell is your partner thinking" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and for good reason. Each person perceives love differently and approaches it in their own way. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, affection and rituals, making it possible to neurologically tune the brain for more love and less conflict.

While there's no doubt that love is an inexact science, if you can discover how you and your partner are wired, you can overcome your differences and create durable and beautiful partner connection.

“If you're feeling lost, confused, or lonely in your relationship, pick up this book right now. It will help you make sense of the chaos and pain and serve as a road map for you to walk the path from frustration and uncertainty to realizing the potential of what you came together for in the first place.
Stan Tatkin's insightful book will teach you how to work as a team to make your partnership a safe, engaging, and deeply satisfying journey."

— Peter Pearson, Ph.D., couples therapist and co-founder of the Couples Institute in Menlo Park, California